• Anticipate the “I don’t want to go” moments. Be ready to gently insist on their attendance and always check in post-class. They’ll likely admit to having fun.

• Maintain a consistent schedule while avoiding burnout. Allow occasional breaks, but emphasize the importance of discipline in personal growth and skill enhancement.

Parents,

We’ve all faced the dreaded “I don’t want to go” declaration from our kids. But, as we navigate this journey of parenting, it’s crucial to establish expectations and foster discipline when it comes to their activities.

Just as we push through our days, sometimes reluctantly heading to the gym after a long day, we must also teach our children about discipline. That’s the essence of martial arts. It’s not always about the immediate desire, but the long-term commitment to growth and skill development. However, remember to allow occasional breaks to prevent burnout.

Even my own martial arts-savvy kids have off days. When they protest, “I’m too tired” or “I don’t want to go today,” more often than not, they return from the dojo exhilarated and glad they went. While occasional breaks are fine, we must instill the importance of perseverance, commitment, and discipline in them.

My personal journey with piano lessons, initially disliked but now cherished, emphasizes the benefits of perseverance. Our kids, too, will have their “I’m glad I stuck with it” moments later in life.

So here’s the game plan:

• Anticipate the “I don’t want to go” moments. Be ready to gently insist on their attendance and always check in post-class. They’ll likely admit to having fun.

• Maintain a consistent schedule while avoiding burnout. Allow occasional breaks, but emphasize the importance of discipline in personal growth and skill enhancement.

• Remember, our children may not fully appreciate our efforts until they’re adults.

See you at the Dojo!